WELCOME

 Hello there. My name is Leilani. I am writing this blog to share life experiences and opinions. i would like to use the blog to relay issues, situations and experiences.

How I cope may not be how another person does. I am constantly reminded that people are different and that I cannot expect them to react like I do. These are some of the topics I would like to discuss in detail.

I am no expert just a person trying to make sense of Love, Life and Everything Else. I am not forcing my views or opinions on anyone I am only looking for a platform where I could learn something different or someone might even take a lesson away from this.

Some topics that interest me are like I said: Life, Love and then more daily issues such as marriage, raising kids. Unemployment and how difficult it is to find work. The fact that the opportunities are out there but the access to tools is unavailable or scarce.

We all experience a multitude of obstacles, problems, hassles daily. But we also experience love, joy, happiness, contentment. We make friends we lose friends. We suffer tragedy and heartbreak. We feel so alone without realizing that it is not possible that no one else has gone through the same thing.

I have been married for seven years. My kids are 14 and 5. I have worked, I have been unemployed. I have experienced loss, heartbreak, tragedy, joy and happiness. Disappointment, frustration and rage at some situations especially in hindsight. I know I am not the only one. So if you are searching for someone or something that you can relate to this might be it.

Life is difficult enough without additional and unnecessary drama. Yet there always seems to be something. Just when you think you have everything under control. That is a bit about me and part of the reason for the blog.